How Men Want to Spice it Up! Part II

Men want you to dress up for them. They are visual creatures and much of what sexually stimulates men is from what they see. What women need to do is get over the imperfections they have. Believe me, I haven't always been thin! It's hard to feel sexy for your man when you don't like the way you look naked. Understand that most men like the imperfections their women have and they appreciate the real woman they have the privilege of sleeping with! Now, men want to see their real women dressed up, playing parts and perhaps tossing in a little striptease here and there.
What do you wear to turn him on? Men like to leave a little to the imagination. More men prefer the silky, short, cleavage baring chemise to the completely sheer, barely there bikini lingerie. Hard to believe? It's true. Here's a tip for you: Men like little things that stay on during sex. For example, try out a pair of sexy lingerie suspenders, or slip on those thigh highs and heels, or throw on a costume with easy access for the ultimate tease and role play. All little things that appeal to man-vision and get him standing at attention. Keep these things on. Strut around your man and then let him have it after a little tease talk.
Here's something more daring that you can do and it's also the hard part for most women. Strip for your man! Again, play on the sexy little things you can wear but you should start out as clothed as possible. For your striptease, try wearing a sexy outfit that you know he already loves. It's also a good idea to think of props. Maybe a business tie would do? Now, we know a good striptease starts with the right outfit but also with the right music. Be sure to play something the two of you will like and something that's slow enough (but not dragging) for you to slowly take your clothes off for this tease. To set the mood even more, set out your mans favorite chilled wine or something you know he loves. Kick it up a notch with some chocolate fondue with strawberries and other sexy finger foods.
Remember to feel sexy and take your time on every single piece of clothing. STRIP TEASE girls! Make sure your shoes don't prohibit you from dancing. You wont regret this one and your man is sure to remember it forever. How could he forget your first striptease? He will probably tell you to stop buying him gifts and give him a striptease for every holiday! Good luck!

Marita ... xoxoXXX

How Men Want to Spice it Up! Part I

Now, let's see if you can relate to this. Your man is a freak and you're too shy to talk dirty to him? You're a little insecure so you don't wear lingerie? You're not into masturbation and you're too shy to masturbate in front of your man or lover? Here are some things that can help you break out of your sweatpants and into that sheer lingerie and latex that's under your bed!

I am a Phone Sex Girl and it's my pride and joy to know what men want and what women need. Women need to know that most men enjoy phone sex and many of them pay for it. That's not something women want their men doing with someone else. So do it for him! When you're at work or at home waiting for your man, pick up the phone and give him a sexy call. Clear your throat and get ready to give your man a sexy, Boner provoking message. The sex in your voice is more important than what you say. Trust me, men can detect "horny" in the smallest degree. It's their make-up! So tell him something like "I was just thinking about you" or "I miss you baby ... When are you coming home to me?". His ears will perk up and he'll be wondering whether or not the bosses need him at work so he can take the rest of the day off.

Now, when your not going to see your man for a while, call him and initiate some sexy talk. Phone Sex can work wonders for your relationship if you are trying to spice it up. If phone sex is not something that you are comfortable with, then stick with the sexy message plan. For those that have the chops, get ready for a mini-lesson in Phone Play.
Get that sexy, smoky voice ready. Get comfortable. You can even dress sexy or get naked if it makes you feel sexy or comfortable! Take a seat or lay back on the bed or in a tub. Before you pick up the phone to call him you should dim the lights, put on a candle or two and slowly begin caressing your body while you think of your man. Let yourself get a little riled up and feeling sexy. Pick up that phone and call your man. If you're feeling hot, you will sound hot. "Hi babyyy, How are you doing?." Like I said before, he should already know that this phone call is a little different from the others. To get the Phone Play going, ask him what he's wearing or give him some hints as to what you are or are not wearing. The basic rule is to be VERY visual with your man. Explain everything you would do to him in great detail and get involved if you can. Do exactly what you say you're doing to yourself and describe it in great detail. Use naughty, descriptive words so that your man will feel like you are right in front of him. Men NEED visuals. Have you ever seen a man get an erection just by looking at a hot girl? YES. Does your man watch porn? YES. It is a talent to be able to paint a very sexy, very naughty picture of what your man loves or would love to see you do. Paint it! Get dirty with it. Forget censorship and inhibitions for these moments with your man. And think about ... this is not a one shot deal. Becoming a Phone Sex Vixen for your man will also help you in the bedroom. You are sure to find out some new things about him and he will be very pleased with you for taking notice.
Phone Sex is my job so it's much more complicated than the aforementioned techniques. But those techniques will undoubtedly help you out. I'm Maritza ... Ms. Maritza if your nasty ...
Maritza ... xoxoXXX

Update!

It's your girl Maritza here! I had a long time off and I decided to come back to my blog. How can I push aside my sexy imagination? (hehe)
Well, I just wanted to give a little update before I continue my stories. I had my 24th birthday on September 9th and I had a great time. I vacationed in Florida at my time share. It's a beautiful place right by Disney (for the kid in me). However, I think we all know that I now have some amazing stories taken directly from my Floridian experience. I can't wait to share them with you and I truly hope you enjoy. I would also appreciate any feedback (good or bad) as I would like to make my blogs as interesting and sexually appealing as possible. So let me know watch ya' think! Kisses to all the readers and Sexual Healers out there!

Maritza ... xoxoXXX

Dinner Is a Tease.....

She walked into the restaurant, reddish brown hair flowing, lips glistening. She was wearing that favorite Black, wrap around minidress he couldn't stand to look at because it made him too nervous to be around her & too excited to see her. She knew it. It was classy, short enough to show her long legs, and low cut enough to make any mans eyes wander. She wore no bra... she didn't need it. It's not like she was large breasted or anything. She wore it perfectly with her 4 inch black and silver stilettos to match her jewels and handbag. As she walked her long, model-esque legs over to his table, he egearly got up and pulled out her chair for her. She smiled graciously and let the words "hello" fall out of her beautiful lips. He was just in awe of her, but he had to get it together. It was just dinner for goodness sake! He sat back down and passed her a menu. Small talk pushed away the awkward silence. Yes, of course she was doing fine and work was great and the same was said about him. Talk continued through the entree's & dessert came around. The waiter placed the single order of Vanilla/Chocalote Ice cream with assorted fruits....and two spoons. They happily shared their desert as that last glass of wine started to kick in on both sides. They were smiling like children but their eyes were smiling like sex was the only thing on their mind... She shook it off, feeling warm inside but afraid to show it for fear he would think she was...easy.

She got up to use the ladies room before they left the restaurant. She pulled herself together, making sure everything was in place. She reapplied her light lipstick and leaned forward toward the mirror..."I can't take this... I'm grown... I can have him if I want him right?". She walked out of the restroom and he noticed a change in her walk. A little more confidence maybe? Or maybe she was just releaved to be leaving him. I guess we'll see. He opened the car door for her and as he walked to the other side he thought, "dammit, is she looking at me?". He hopped in and she leaned over and placed her hand softly on his cheek, turning his face toward hers...She looked at him and said, "I've never done this before... But...." before the rest of her words left her mouth, which was inches away from his, he placed his hand on her face and gently pulled her in for the softness brush of their lips as they adjusted to one another's movements... The kiss became a little harder and their tongues slipped softly out of each others mouths, touching and dancing. He ran his large, strong hands up & down her back, which gave her chills and made the right connections with her lower body....She found herself getting moist now. They quickly pulled apart almost simultaneously and he stared at her as she adjusted herself and said "hurry up. Lets go to your place." He thought this was too good to be true... but he was going to run with it.

He raced to his place which took no more than 5 minutes. They got out and walked slowly over the gravel and into his home. He took a seat on the couch as she offered for him to take a rest and let her take their coats, even though it was his home. She knew what she was doing. He sat down as planned. She walked slowly, he could here her heels click clacking against the wood floors as he watched her gracefully walk over as her loose, soft hair moved with every step, half covering her right eye... he was stiffening at that very moment. She walked over and stood in front of him. She said nothing. She untied the back of the dress and let it unravel around her until she held it together before slowly opening it up, exposing her Black lace bra and Black lace panties that looked so perfect wrapped around her plump, perfect ass. She let the dress slide down her arms and fall to the floor. So there she stood, still in her 4 inch stilettos, Now not sure what to do.

He slowly got up while unbuttoning his shirt and letting it fall to the floor. She marveled at his manliness. His thickness. His perfect abs and broad shoulders. She couldn't wait to be wrapped in his arms. He finally reached her, moving his hands gently around her waist & up her back...He couldn't stop thinking about how smooth she was. As he explored her not yet naked body, she worked on his belt buckle and and found a brave streak in herself as she aggressively ripped it out of its loops! She shocked herself, looking up at him, her head slightly down, looking for a sign of approval and not a turn-off. He smirked and she realized he had a sexy dimple on his left cheek. Her engine revved and she smiled with excitement as she found the Woman in her again that night. She undid his pants and pulled them down to the floor along with herself ... her face leveled with te crotch of his boxer briefs. She decided to continue being bold and sensual. Her teeth were wrapped around the band off his underwear and she tugged at them until he swiveled a little to help her get them off.

My God! He was amazing and seemed to be the perfect size and fit for all that she planned. She held herself back from her urge to devour him and taste him as she made herself stand back up in front of him. He wrapped his arms around her small waist, caressed her back and unhooked her bra, freeing her breasts at last. Her nipples were so hard and her breasts were so perky and perfect. How did he get so lucky? He couldn't focus on anything but her. He kissed a trail down the corners of her mouth, to her neck, to her collar bone, until he reach her delicious breasts. His lips softly traced the area around her nipples as she grabbed the back of his head gently but firmly. He knew that was where she wanted him to be right then. He licked softly under her breasts, teasing until her nipples protruded as if begging for his warmth. He them took her nipple into his mouth and flicked it with his tongue as he kept his warm mouth over it. He finally came back up and slowly guided her to sit down. He helped her slide her panties off and he marveled at the most beautiful, groomed pussy he had ever seen. Perfection. He couldn't hold back. He wrapped an arm around her and kissed and licked up and around her flat, soft stomach and made his way to her navel. He finally reached the top of her soft mound but didn't touch her pussy at all. Her moans brought him out of his trance. He looked up at her to see that she was rubbing her breasts and pinching her nipples with her eyes closed, waiting for more.

He put a finger up to her full lips and she instinctively sucked it hungrily. She flicked her tongue around the tip of his finger and he took that at his cue to keep going. He found his place on her body once again. He slowly pushed her legs open, watching her pussy come to life as it was completely exposed to him. He was rock hard. He caressed her silky thighs and rubbed his hands around her pussy. Next, her pussy lips were being licked and sucked on so good she felt as if she could cum without him touching or entering her. He slowly licked his way to her clitoris and wrapped his lips around it, almost like a kiss with a little suck. Then he let her go and licked like a lapdog up and down, on and off her clit and it drove her insane! Her pussy walls began throbbing so hard when he traced gentle circles around her entrance and he was able to taste and feel that she was becoming very wet. He took the opportunity to put a finger back in her mouth, she licked it, sucked it, and he lowered it back down to her treasure. He entered her. His finger sliding in and out of her sweet honey hole and OOhh how she moaned. She swiveled her hips against his fingers and he could see her juices dripping and covering his fingers as he entered her in and out. He added a finger to her pleasure. He had never heard such beautiful moans and sighs. He found her G-spot and immediately felt it swell with need. He curved his fingers up and slid in and out of her pussy. She was trembling now, he felt her insides shake and her legs quiver as she prepared to cum. He wanted to feel it so he began licking and sucking her clit again as he fingered her ferociously. She wondered if he knew how hard she came. How much she came. That as she screamed "I'm cumming!!", he would feel her squirt all over his face, neck and chest ... and mouth! He was initially shocked, but felt his own pre-cum dripping down as she came all over the place. Her face, her load moans, her sweat cum, and her juicy pussy ... it was going to be a long night ...

(TO BE CONTINUED)

Maritza.....xoxoXXX

Flaashback! Office Fun!

Private office. Everyone is at a meeting. "Peter" is sitting by his window enjoying the view waiting for me to cum bring him his lunch (something I never really do because he works so far away). This particular day, I planned a little surprise for Peter. As cliche as it is, a trench coat with skimpy clothes or a lingerie set with garter belt and fishnets with 4 1/2 inch heels, That is exactly what I did. You see it in movies but does it ever really happen??
Anyway, I stepped in the elevator, made sure I had my perfume still in full effect, my clothes, or lack thereof, put together, and made my way out of the elevator and down the carpeted hall to his office. I left the lunch on a table right outside his office and knocked on the door (which was the only thing not made of glass). I walked over to him and gave him an innocent peck and a sly smile and he knew something was up. Hehehe... I came over, in my high heels, and hovered over him as he sat back down. I kissed his neck and walked to the front of his desk and asked how his day was as I dropped my coat down simultaneously. He began to speak and stopped dead in his tracks. My petite perky breasts were being held perfectly by a lace black and pink bra, matching my black and pink lace boy shorts with garter belt.... and fishnet stockings... all the way down to my size 6 4 1/2 inch heels. I told him to hush teasingly, and proceeded to turn around, bend over (giving him clear view of my lacy ass), and picked up my coat and hung it up. He finally got a 360 view of me, which is what I wanted. I teased him until he was ROCK hard just by looking at me and my sexy, sultry voice telling him step by step what I was going to do to him. I slowly and very close to him, unlocked my bra letting my petite, perky breasts free to be explored. I unbuckled his pants and had him lift his bottom so I could slip everything off easily. I then explored his thighs with my lips, breath and hair. He finally said, I can't take it anymore... Please give me that P***y. I said to I would, but not before I got a taste of that big snake that gives me so much pleasure. I licked the head of his penis in a circular motion, gathering every bit of pleasure in my mouth. I swirled his pre-cum around with my tongue and rubbed it on my already wet lips.... I then took him in, deep throating slowly enough that when I got to the base I could still, with his penis in my mouth, stick out my soft, warm tongue and tickle his balls. He didn't want to cum just yet so I got up, turned around and bent over to take off my boy shorts, leaving the garter on... bending over enough to touch my toes so he could see inside the pleasure he was going to enter so eagerly. He moved some things over on his desk and grabbed my ass firmly and picked me up and planted me hard, naked except for garters, on the top of his desk. He then placed his head between my legs and licked me just enough to make me wetter than I already was... he sucked on my clit gently to stimulate me even more. I was so wet for his penetration that I opened my legs as wide as they would go (as an ex dancer, not stripper, My legs spread wide as you can imagine) and he took my signal and read"it's time to pound the S*** out of her! And that he did... hard, disrupting everything on his desk, making me scream sooOooooOoo loud I could swear the entire company heard us in their meeting. I squirmed from pleasure, with nothing to grip except his hard body. I gripped his tight ass and pushed him hard and roughly into my P***y, on the brink of orgasm. As we both went crazy, gripping, sucking, biting, and scratching, I reached orgasm first and my moans and the wetness and tightness of my orgasm made him cum seconds after. He collapsed back in his chair while I sat on his desk, getting ready to get rid of all evidence of what we just did, including the cum filled condom...lol. After I dressed, I gave him a kiss goodbye and I stepped right outside his office, grabbed his lunch and re-entered the office. "O, by the way hun, I'm sure you worked up an appetite so here's your lunch." And with that said, I left to home to take a nice soothing shower.

My new G-Spot Vibrator Toy! This one's For the ladies and gentlemen!

SOoOoOo... I went and bought this g-spot vibrator and it finally came in the mail!!! It's shaped like a wand with a wide, oval shaped tip about 2-3 inches thick at it's thickest point (obviously the middle!) ..lol.. OK. SO to the good stuff.

My friend with benefits and I, we will call him Tom, decided we would write a list of sexual things we want to do together within the ext two weeks.. we each had 4 things we wanted to do together. One of them, on my side, was masturbate together. SO I will set this up so it feels as if you were there.

About 11-12 at night.... we flirted, kissed, he would spank my ass as I walked by and say he can't wait for me to be ready. I go to the bathroom, look at myself, freshen up (as most all women do), and get ready to have multiple orgasms. I was already feeling horny and throbbing between my legs. So I, wearing a pink full coverage corset and nothing else, walked into the room. I began at my side of the king sized bed and crawled across to Toms side to let him know I am ready. He saw it in my eyes and my sly grin that YOU all see so often in my pics...lol. He wrapped his arm around me and softly flung me on my back on the bed. he then reached down to get the my toy and the flavored not sticky lube. I, after applying some of the lube to his penis, which warms and cools, I took his center into my mouth to get him started. Although lights were dim, he could see my mouth wrapped around his center very clearly. He was at attention shortly and he turned to get to the bottom of the bed, where he crawled his way up and in between my legs. My legs fell open willingly and eagerly. He licked me softly all over my treasure and then lighty licked my clit. We didn't want to do too much because it was all about masturbation tonight. I reached over for the toy and he reached over for the lube and applied some to the largeness of my toy and then he lubbed his penis for a good show and a good rub. hehehehe.. I never tried one of these toys an I looked at it and thought..."it goes from big oval, to a 1 inch stick...I'm not sure if this is going to work". (note: I know plenty enough about my g-spot and squirting orgasms and that is what I was anticipating). I slowly slid the big tip inside my sweet, tight hole... and began tp rub what i felt inside... my g-spot. It's that area about 2-3 inches inside the vagina that always feels extremely sensitive. Some women feel like they're going to pee when they feel the friction on this area but, don't worry, you wont. If you feel that, go with it and relax.

Anyway, I hadn't turned on the vibrator yet and it was feeling sooOOooo good already! My spot was swelling and I felt it. We turned the lights up a little more so Tom could see how wet I was getting. With this toy rubbing my g-spot I was ready to climb up the wall... so I grabbed Tom and put one of his hands on my breast as I turned the vibrator on....OOoooOOooOoo My GoOOoOd!!! I immediatel felt my legs tingling and my g-spot tingling all over. It was soooo intense I had to moan LOUD! I felt that tingling on and on and on... then I felt wetness and my juices flowing and sliding out of my vagina and running down the line to my asshole to the bed. Tom was so turned on when he saw my juices dripping out of me... He stroked himself harder and faster...tlking dirty to me... UUhhhhhhhhhI shivered and pulled the toy out because it was toooo intense ... as I CAME all over the bed... I continued to shiver and I ran the dildo in and out of my vagina until the shivering stopped, which seemed like forever. I tensed up so hard as Tom came all over my breasts and stomach ( he loves to do that because I rub it all over my breasts and stomach and glisten for a minute in his cum...lol.... it was one of the best orgasms I ever had in my life! A G-Spot Orgasm!

A G-Spot Orgasm! For men and women... there is alot to know about the g-spot and g-spot orgasms. I know alot and I still am surprised at the other things you can do! Ask questions, comment, men and women.... This is one of my favorite subjects! MMmmmm.... it's awesome so don't miss out on this experience!

So, it's a new day and a new post! I was, once again, reminded of a sexually satisfying and exciting experience because of one of my callers! Well, we'lll start here....

Iwas out with the man I was with at the time, we'll call him Rad, and we were out at a bar having a good time. Had a couple of drinks. Then, after dancing and grinding on the floor for the better part of two hours... we'd had enough and wanted to be alone....hehehe...We hopped into the car (I was wearing a fushia colored dress, like the color Im typing in, with no panties) and we got hot with each other the minute he began to drive. I reached over, eagerly unzipped his pants and took him into my mouth while he was driving... =-) He Came in my mouth joyfully of course...lol... and I tasted the sweetness of his satisfaction. I then leaned back in the passenger seat and ( with no panties), spread my legs and he starting playing with my goodies and entering them with his fingers as passing drivers looked on and gave thumbs up and watched excitedly at our sexual encounter. Well, after playing with each other for so long ( which was only a matter of ten minutes or so), we parked in a starngers driveway. I asked what he was doing and he just opened my passenger side door and pulled me out, eagerly, and sexually... he then tried to enter me from behind while I leaned on the hood of the car... but the bar was to low and it was too difficult for our impatience. He, Finally, threw me on ther hood of the car and took off his shirt. I spread my legs and he finally entered me with such force I couldnt help but scream! And i kept moan ing loadly and sreaming while getting even more turned on watching the sweat drip down his big muscular chest.... OoOohhh that drove me crazy...Its like a wet t-shirt contest for a woman...lol) As loud as we were, the owner or neighbor ( I cannot remember which) finally came to the window and watched us with no objection to the late night noise. Finally, we came simultaniously and, of course, I cleaned up .... we laughed and kissed... and went home to F*** a second and third time.

That night, I was an exhibitionist, like many other nights. There are many sexual ( and other ) qualities that you will learn about me along the way. My blogs are not only going to be about the things I have dont sexually, but I will also be giving sexual advice (I have read many books and at my young age... I have self-experienced many things (masturbating...lol). So If anyone wants to comment or even ask questions along the way... feel freeeeee... this is not just for men but for women also. xoxoXXX Maritza!

First Female Encounter...mmmmmm

Yes, I am on the left and my very, very close friend is on the right.
I did a call last night that reminded me of one of my first sexcapade with a woman. I wanted to share that story here thinking that some of you may enjoy it.
Well first, Im going to call her Nikki. Our night started ou at a black tie Christmas party, where we had a couple of drinks and a shot or two. We danced together, trying to be discreet because, after all... it was a black tie affair! We sat together and had hands on thighs and being very flirty. ( I'm going to mention here that we met online and this was our first date). Well, before we would end up having too many drinks, and because we wanted a little privacy to "talk"...lol...we got in her car and headed on the road. Down the highway, Nikki got very uncomfortable in her "black tie" clothes. We made a stop on a secluded road and she got her bag with white t-shirt and jeans and changed right in front of the drivers side window. While Im passing her her shirt and pants from the bag... I was watching her perky breasts restricted in her lacy bra. I watched her pull down her skirt and peeked at her beautiful, tight ass and tryed to eye the shape of her pussy. All looked good to me and, after complimenting her, I anxiously waited until we got to my place. We parked the car in front of my building and debated wether she should stay with me or drive all the way back home. In the midst of conversation, I reached over the stick and kissed her for the first time. Something about how soft she was and how soft her hair was was turning me on more than I could have imagined.Ihad my hands in her hair and reached my arm around her waist to encourage her to climb over the stick shirt and get on top of me, legs spread, still clothed. She slowly, but hungrily kissed me and slid her tongue in and out of my mouth while feeling my breasts over my button down shirt. She slowly unbuttoned my shirt while we were kissing and exposed my bra and cleavage. She ran her hand up and down my breasts and cleavage and I had had enough. I forced her to sit back in the seat I was in and reclined for her... I took her jeans down ( not al the way down) and I slowly rubbed her smooth, beautiful thight as I stared at her hiden pussy. I finally moved her panties to the side and smelled her sweet pussy. I licked and sucked on her clit while fingering her to orgasm. Tasting her was so sweet and I wanted more so we made our way to my bed in my apartment and she wewnt down on me two seconds later.... oooo licking my clit sooo good and fingering me at the same time. But she was fingering and messaging my pussy like I've never even known before. Turning her fingers around and around in my pussy....and then OOOOO.... my first orgasm! I never even felt it cumming... it was just an Xplosion that I never felt and didnt expect. Nikki and I still play to this day....

Let me know if you want more details or more info about me andmy stories go to my links with my other profile and pics....
Maritza
xoxoXXX

My First Blog

So, Im a 23 year old mother of a 21 month old baby girl. By day, Im a stay at home mother...By night, I am a...Fanstasy Phone sex operator. Day one on the job, I was in love! THIS is what I was made to do. You see, phone sex is not just about getting someone off. I consider it theraputic for those who cannot explore the sex life that they want to with their wives or girlfriends or even best friends. These men (and yes women) enjoy their time with me and many of them have told me how much it means to them that i give them what they want. how they want it... with noe shame or judgement. Aside from the bonding and appreciation for one another, there is the amazing feeling phone sex brings to those who have done it or are doing it. Its sexually satisfying for both parties (and yes, I do satisfy myself while I am on my calls). Many men want to cyber or webcam with me but, no...that does nothing for me...(and besides, I have no cam =-) . Phone sex is so arousing and it gives such a sense of sexual power that it makes it that much more enjoyable for me! Well, I dont want to type your ear off on my first blog. I hope on the next one I can tell some of my crazy, amazing stories to the readers. Read, read, read... It's going to get juicier!