Wednesday, November 12, 2008

How Men Want to Spice it Up! Part II


Men want you to dress up for them. They are visual creatures and much of what sexually stimulates men is from what they see. What women need to do is get over the imperfections they have. Believe me, I haven't always been thin! It's hard to feel sexy for your man when you don't like the way you look naked. Understand that most men like the imperfections their women have and they appreciate the real woman they have the privilege of sleeping with! Now, men want to see their real women dressed up, playing parts and perhaps tossing in a little striptease here and there.
What do you wear to turn him on? Men like to leave a little to the imagination. More men prefer the silky, short, cleavage baring chemise to the completely sheer, barely there bikini lingerie. Hard to believe? It's true. Here's a tip for you: Men like little things that stay on during sex. For example, try out a pair of sexy lingerie suspenders, or slip on those thigh highs and heels, or throw on a costume with easy access for the ultimate tease and role play. All little things that appeal to man-vision and get him standing at attention. Keep these things on. Strut around your man and then let him have it after a little tease talk.
Here's something more daring that you can do and it's also the hard part for most women. Strip for your man! Again, play on the sexy little things you can wear but you should start out as clothed as possible. For your striptease, try wearing a sexy outfit that you know he already loves. It's also a good idea to think of props. Maybe a business tie would do? Now, we know a good striptease starts with the right outfit but also with the right music. Be sure to play something the two of you will like and something that's slow enough (but not dragging) for you to slowly take your clothes off for this tease. To set the mood even more, set out your mans favorite chilled wine or something you know he loves. Kick it up a notch with some chocolate fondue with strawberries and other sexy finger foods.
Remember to feel sexy and take your time on every single piece of clothing. STRIP TEASE girls! Make sure your shoes don't prohibit you from dancing. You wont regret this one and your man is sure to remember it forever. How could he forget your first striptease? He will probably tell you to stop buying him gifts and give him a striptease for every holiday! Good luck!

Marita ... xoxoXXX

1 comment:

Rad said...

woooohooo
Preach on it Mari, you don't have to show all the goods to get your man to notice you. I for one loved to be teased, a sexy teddy showing off shapely thighs beats out butt naked any day....well not any day but most days.
very nice blog girl