How Men Want to Spice it Up! Part II

Men want you to dress up for them. They are visual creatures and much of what sexually stimulates men is from what they see. What women need to do is get over the imperfections they have. Believe me, I haven't always been thin! It's hard to feel sexy for your man when you don't like the way you look naked. Understand that most men like the imperfections their women have and they appreciate the real woman they have the privilege of sleeping with! Now, men want to see their real women dressed up, playing parts and perhaps tossing in a little striptease here and there.
What do you wear to turn him on? Men like to leave a little to the imagination. More men prefer the silky, short, cleavage baring chemise to the completely sheer, barely there bikini lingerie. Hard to believe? It's true. Here's a tip for you: Men like little things that stay on during sex. For example, try out a pair of sexy lingerie suspenders, or slip on those thigh highs and heels, or throw on a costume with easy access for the ultimate tease and role play. All little things that appeal to man-vision and get him standing at attention. Keep these things on. Strut around your man and then let him have it after a little tease talk.
Here's something more daring that you can do and it's also the hard part for most women. Strip for your man! Again, play on the sexy little things you can wear but you should start out as clothed as possible. For your striptease, try wearing a sexy outfit that you know he already loves. It's also a good idea to think of props. Maybe a business tie would do? Now, we know a good striptease starts with the right outfit but also with the right music. Be sure to play something the two of you will like and something that's slow enough (but not dragging) for you to slowly take your clothes off for this tease. To set the mood even more, set out your mans favorite chilled wine or something you know he loves. Kick it up a notch with some chocolate fondue with strawberries and other sexy finger foods.
Remember to feel sexy and take your time on every single piece of clothing. STRIP TEASE girls! Make sure your shoes don't prohibit you from dancing. You wont regret this one and your man is sure to remember it forever. How could he forget your first striptease? He will probably tell you to stop buying him gifts and give him a striptease for every holiday! Good luck!

Marita ... xoxoXXX

How Men Want to Spice it Up! Part I

Now, let's see if you can relate to this. Your man is a freak and you're too shy to talk dirty to him? You're a little insecure so you don't wear lingerie? You're not into masturbation and you're too shy to masturbate in front of your man or lover? Here are some things that can help you break out of your sweatpants and into that sheer lingerie and latex that's under your bed!

I am a Phone Sex Girl and it's my pride and joy to know what men want and what women need. Women need to know that most men enjoy phone sex and many of them pay for it. That's not something women want their men doing with someone else. So do it for him! When you're at work or at home waiting for your man, pick up the phone and give him a sexy call. Clear your throat and get ready to give your man a sexy, Boner provoking message. The sex in your voice is more important than what you say. Trust me, men can detect "horny" in the smallest degree. It's their make-up! So tell him something like "I was just thinking about you" or "I miss you baby ... When are you coming home to me?". His ears will perk up and he'll be wondering whether or not the bosses need him at work so he can take the rest of the day off.

Now, when your not going to see your man for a while, call him and initiate some sexy talk. Phone Sex can work wonders for your relationship if you are trying to spice it up. If phone sex is not something that you are comfortable with, then stick with the sexy message plan. For those that have the chops, get ready for a mini-lesson in Phone Play.
Get that sexy, smoky voice ready. Get comfortable. You can even dress sexy or get naked if it makes you feel sexy or comfortable! Take a seat or lay back on the bed or in a tub. Before you pick up the phone to call him you should dim the lights, put on a candle or two and slowly begin caressing your body while you think of your man. Let yourself get a little riled up and feeling sexy. Pick up that phone and call your man. If you're feeling hot, you will sound hot. "Hi babyyy, How are you doing?." Like I said before, he should already know that this phone call is a little different from the others. To get the Phone Play going, ask him what he's wearing or give him some hints as to what you are or are not wearing. The basic rule is to be VERY visual with your man. Explain everything you would do to him in great detail and get involved if you can. Do exactly what you say you're doing to yourself and describe it in great detail. Use naughty, descriptive words so that your man will feel like you are right in front of him. Men NEED visuals. Have you ever seen a man get an erection just by looking at a hot girl? YES. Does your man watch porn? YES. It is a talent to be able to paint a very sexy, very naughty picture of what your man loves or would love to see you do. Paint it! Get dirty with it. Forget censorship and inhibitions for these moments with your man. And think about ... this is not a one shot deal. Becoming a Phone Sex Vixen for your man will also help you in the bedroom. You are sure to find out some new things about him and he will be very pleased with you for taking notice.
Phone Sex is my job so it's much more complicated than the aforementioned techniques. But those techniques will undoubtedly help you out. I'm Maritza ... Ms. Maritza if your nasty ...
Maritza ... xoxoXXX

Update!

It's your girl Maritza here! I had a long time off and I decided to come back to my blog. How can I push aside my sexy imagination? (hehe)
Well, I just wanted to give a little update before I continue my stories. I had my 24th birthday on September 9th and I had a great time. I vacationed in Florida at my time share. It's a beautiful place right by Disney (for the kid in me). However, I think we all know that I now have some amazing stories taken directly from my Floridian experience. I can't wait to share them with you and I truly hope you enjoy. I would also appreciate any feedback (good or bad) as I would like to make my blogs as interesting and sexually appealing as possible. So let me know watch ya' think! Kisses to all the readers and Sexual Healers out there!

Maritza ... xoxoXXX